Impoliteness Among Teenagers

Hi guys! Thanks again for viewing our blog. Today, Al- Fateh’s Heir (AFH) will share with you guys an entry on amorality or in the other word is impoliteness ..Why impoliteness?? Well, as you guys know, teenagers nowadays are most likely to downgrade their morality and prefer to live in uncivilized environment.What I mean is that they tend to be a person that live against the rules and beyond their norms. Example, raising high voice to elder people, bullying or intimidating people with the threat of violence or social exclusion or even farting or burping at a certain place in-front of somebody. 

Quarelling are the most impolite things that always happen in our daily life.

 After AFH made a few research through the net, we found  few major reasons of why this thing happen in our society especially among student:

1.Lack of Love form Parents and religious education       

Parents are always the starting point on developing children. It becomes the initial point for those kids in nurturing good traits, love and positive behaviour . Parents that spend less time with their children are most likely to have their children grew up into a teenager with less respect towards them. Right after that, when their kids show negative attitude,their parents will be mostly scolding them rather than having a family discussion.

2.Media mass influence:

The media in itself is so addictive that once glued to it, you tend to forget everything else no matter you are an adult or a teenager. When you are not watching TV, you are surfing the Internet, when you are not on the web, you are reading newspapers, when you are not reading anything, you are listening to something. Thus, all the time, you are glued to some form of media. It is bombarding you with content, news, information, gossip, rumors - it is exposing you to everything it has, some things necessary, some not; some things important, some not, some things you want to ignore, some things you cannot. Media is everywhere, affecting every aspect of life.In addition, nowadays, more scene that rated under 18PG (age 18 below need parental advisor) are not been filtered and it can be access easily through the net. Therefore, young minds are susceptible to what they are portrayed.

3. Peer Pressure

Despite of their lack of time spending with their parents, they always use up most of their time with their peers like at school or while hanging out together. Therefore, their behaviour and habits are mostly influenced by their friends.Thus, good friends will bring good behaviours and habits and vice versa.

Ok then, AFH will likely to give  a few suggestions on how to overcome incivility among teenagers.

1. Parents need to be a great role model to them by showing positive traits to them.

2. Always create general conversations with them to let them feel comfortable when talking to you.

3. Instill religious education in them. So that they wouldn’t go beyond their norm as a human and a servant to The Almighty God

4.Teenagers should be selective in choosing friends, Choose a friend that can guide you or at least that won’t bring you down

5. They themself should avoid  certain group of peers that pretend to be cool by doing violence 

Well, there’s all AFH want to share for today..Till we meet again next time..Tataa J